Day 2: The Hidden Face of ADHD in Women

Welcome back! Yesterday, we kicked off Women's History Month by spotlighting ADHD in women—a topic that’s close to my heart and critical for us to understand better. Today, I want to explore an aspect of ADHD that often surprises clinicians, educators, and even women themselves: the hidden face of ADHD in women.

Beyond the Stereotype: What ADHD in Women Really Looks Like

When most people think of ADHD, they imagine hyperactive, impulsive behaviors—typically in young boys. But what about the quiet, day-dreamy girl in the classroom who struggles to stay focused? Or the adult woman who constantly feels overwhelmed, forgetful, or scattered?


These women represent the hidden face of ADHD. They often fly under the radar, quietly struggling with inattentiveness, anxiety, and internalized frustration. Dr. Susan Young emphasizes that women frequently mask their symptoms, working twice as hard to appear organized and competent, despite feeling overwhelmed internally (Young, 2020).


In my own clinical practice, I've met many women who describe their lives as a constant juggling act. They often share stories of feeling misunderstood or labeled as "lazy," "careless," or "too sensitive," when in reality, they're experiencing symptoms of undiagnosed ADHD.

Understanding "Masking": Why Women Hide Their Symptoms

"Masking" refers to the coping strategies women often use to hide their ADHD symptoms. It’s common for women to exert enormous effort to appear organized, attentive, and calm—even when they're struggling internally. Dr. Sandra Kooij highlights that societal expectations around women’s roles often pressure women to mask symptoms, leading to chronic stress, anxiety, and feelings of inadequacy (Kooij et al., 2019).


As clinicians, educators, and advocates, recognizing masking behaviors is critical. When we understand that women may be silently struggling behind a composed exterior, we can approach assessment and treatment with greater sensitivity and effectiveness.

Anxiety, Depression, and ADHD: A Complex Relationship

Women with ADHD often present with co-occurring mental health conditions, particularly anxiety and depression. Dr. Martin Katzman's research has shown that women with ADHD are significantly more likely to experience anxiety disorders, mood disorders, and emotional dysregulation compared to their male counterparts (Katzman et al., 2017). This overlap can further complicate diagnosis because clinicians may initially identify anxiety or depression without recognizing the underlying ADHD.


In my experience, uncovering ADHD beneath anxiety or depression can be life-changing for women. It opens the door to targeted interventions that address the root cause of their struggles, rather than just managing symptoms superficially.

Hormones and ADHD: An Important Consideration

An often-overlooked aspect of ADHD in women is the role of hormonal fluctuations. Dr. Sandra Kooij's work emphasizes how monthly cycles, pregnancy, postpartum periods, and menopause can significantly impact ADHD symptom severity (Kooij et al., 2019). Hormonal shifts can exacerbate symptoms, making diagnosis and treatment more complex.


I’ve found that educating women about these hormonal influences helps validate their experiences and empowers them to advocate for their health needs more effectively.

What Can We Do?

The Canadian ADHD Resource Alliance (CADDRA) guidelines and the World Federation for ADHD guidelines both stress the importance of gender-sensitive and culturally competent approaches to diagnosing and treating ADHD. They recommend clinicians actively screen for inattentive symptoms, emotional dysregulation, and co-occurring anxiety or mood disorders—especially in women who might not fit traditional ADHD stereotypes (CADDRA, 2020; World Federation of ADHD, 2021).


In my practice, I’ve found that simply asking women about their internal experiences—feelings of overwhelm, difficulty staying organized, or emotional sensitivity—can reveal hidden ADHD symptoms that might otherwise go unnoticed.

Let's Keep the Conversation Going

The hidden face of ADHD in women is a critical topic we must continue to explore. By increasing our awareness and understanding, we can help more women receive accurate diagnoses and effective treatment, ultimately improving their quality of life.


Tomorrow, we'll dive even deeper into why women with ADHD are often overlooked in clinical practice and society at large. Until then, I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences:


  • Have you encountered masking behaviors in your practice or personal life?
  • How has recognizing ADHD in women changed your approach to care?


Join the conversation by leaving a comment or sharing your thoughts on social media. Let's continue raising awareness and advocating for better care for women with ADHD!

References

  • Young, S. (2020). ADHD in Girls and Women: A Clinical Perspective. Frontiers in Psychiatry, 11, 578.
  • Canadian ADHD Resource Alliance (CADDRA). (2020). Canadian ADHD Practice Guidelines, 4th Edition. Retrieved from https://www.caddra.ca
  • Kooij, S. J. J., Bijlenga, D., Salerno, L., et al. (2019). Updated European Consensus Statement on Diagnosis and Treatment of Adult ADHD. European Psychiatry, 56, 14-34.

HEY, I’M THE AUTHOR…

Naomi Myrick, MSN, PMHNP-BC, is a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner and CEO of Cardinal Care Psychiatric Services, operating two offices in Virginia. She specializes in Adult ADHD, health equity, and mentorship, earning the 2023 Outstanding Nurse Practitioner Preceptor Award. As the founder of Cardinal Academy, she provides education for psychiatric NPs. Naomi actively contributes to APSARD, CAADRA, and other professional organizations and serves on Tebra Technologies' Mental Health Advisory Board. She is now publishing blogs on ADHD to raise awareness and promote understanding.

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